My Retirement Book: Self-doubt crept in.

face to face you are your biggest obstacle

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I was probably a little more forgiving to myself during that first year of retirement, but extra discretionary time often leads to more introspection, or an equivalent of what this Huffington Post piece refers to as ‘sensemaking’.

This article highlights research by the University of Cincinnati’s Heather Vough and colleagues who identified a list of the six most common career-ending narratives, including the three most challenging to a retiree’s self-worth:

  • Being discarded
  • Becoming disillusioned
  • Having an epiphany

I experienced a mix of these three and so my first year, while at times leisurely, was more marked by a juggling act of highs and lows and doubts and revelations.

My challenge, and I would guess that of plenty of other retirees, was to write a new script.

More on that in a later post.

Take the time to read the HuffPost piece. I’m betting there will be a realization or two out there if you identify your retirement narrative according to the article’s list.


My Retirement Book: Some hobbies require careful consideration.

Retirement_inventions_hobbies-rise above

Face it. You won’t stand a chance against
this millennium’s onslaught of drones.

 

Here are a few ideas for hobbies during retirement.

[Note: Aeronautics is not on the list. ;->]

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My Retirement Book: Leave the regrets behind.

retirement leave ghosts behind regrets

There will always be the ghosts of regret. Saddle up and ride on past.

I know, easier said than done.
But just think–you’ve set aside more time for living, for exploring new avenues.
And it’s possible you’ve left behind some people who detracted from your quality of life. So savor that, too.

Here is an interesting article from Time on retirement and regrets.

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My Retirement Book: Beware the financial wizards

dishonest guy sweet-talking ladies

If only they were this obvious…

Here is a list of ten scams to guard against.

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My Retirement Book: Too much quality time with the dog? 

retirement terrier share stage pet

Beware the owner-pet lookalike affliction.

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There is actually research into this.


Today’s post is an excerpt from a draft of my tongue-in-cheek book on retirement.
I’m also looking at setting up an online community.
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My Retirement Book: Getting pets involved. Don’t overdo it.

retirement dont victimize pet

As loyal and loving as Barkley is,
he may not need the boot camp designed for you.


Today’s post is an excerpt from a draft of my tongue-in-cheek book on retirement.
I’m also looking at setting up an online community.
If you’re interested…


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My Retirement Book: The upside of grandkids…

Retirement upside of grandkids

Your arms are tired from holding the newspaper upright for minutes on end. And those weeds didn’t hoe themselves. And the dog was pulling like it was the first mile of the Iditarod.

Time for the loving grandkids to step up…


Today’s post is an excerpt from a draft of my mind-bending book on retirement.
[Okay, slight exaggeration.]
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